Breaking the Chains: Confronting the Harmful Impact of Racial Microaggressions on Black Women
- Lynn Graham
- Apr 18, 2023
- 4 min read
Updated: Apr 19, 2023
By Lynn Graham
Buckwheat." That's what my colleague called me. It may seem like a harmless nickname, but the impact it had on me was far from harmless.

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As a Black woman, I have experienced firsthand the pain and hurt caused by racial microaggressions. I remember a time when I was working with a colleague, and he referred to me as "Buckwheat." At the time, I was taken aback and didn't know how to respond. While this may seem like a small incident, it was incredibly hurtful and dehumanizing.
Unfortunately, this is just one example of how the "angry Black woman" stereotype is perpetuated through racial microaggressions and the dehumanization of Black women. The "angry Black woman" stereotype suggests that Black women are hostile, overly emotional, and easily agitated. However, it fails to acknowledge that our anger is often a response to the systemic racism and gender inequality we face in our daily lives.
Microaggressions like the one I experienced are harmful because they contribute to a hostile environment in the workplace, where we are often penalized for expressing emotions or advocating for ourselves. They also take a toll on our mental health, leading to increased stress and anxiety.

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It's not people of color's responsibility to solve microaggressions in the workplace – The Varsity
It's important to recognize that racial microaggressions are not isolated incidents but are deeply rooted in the history of slavery and oppression. The dehumanization of Black women through harmful stereotypes like the "angry Black woman" has a long and painful history. These stereotypes not only perpetuate discrimination and dehumanization but also undermine the validity of our experiences of discrimination and inequality.
To challenge and dismantle the "angry Black woman" stereotype, we need to take action at both the individual and systemic levels. We need to foster open conversations around race and gender, amplify the voices of Black women, educate ourselves and others about the historical context and impact of the stereotype, support Black women, and hold ourselves and others accountable for perpetuating stereotypes and biases.
To challenge and dismantle racial microaggressions and the "angry Black woman" stereotype, here are some actionable tips:
Educate yourself on the history and impact of systemic racism and gender inequality, and actively challenge your own biases and assumptions.
Listen to Black women and amplify their voices, experiences, and perspectives. Acknowledge and validate their emotions, and support their right to express themselves fully.
Speak up when you witness or experience racial microaggressions or other forms of discrimination. Educate others on the impact of their words and actions, and advocate for change at the individual and systemic levels.
Create safe spaces for Black women to express themselves freely, without fear of judgment or reprisal. Foster open conversations around race and gender, and challenge harmful myths and stereotypes.
Advocate for greater representation of Black women in leadership roles and media. Support Black women writers, artists, and activists, and promote positive representations of Black women in popular culture.
Hold institutions and systems accountable for perpetuating discrimination and inequality. Push for policy changes that promote equity and inclusion, and support organizations and initiatives that work towards social justice.
By taking these actionable steps, we can challenge and dismantle racial microaggressions and the "angry Black woman" stereotype.

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Examples of racial microaggressions in the workplace:
A white coworker asking a Black coworker if they are "angry" or "aggressive" when they express their opinion or disagreement.
A non-Asian coworker assuming that an Asian coworker is good at math or science.
A white coworker touching a Black coworker's hair without their permission or making comments about it.
A coworker making jokes or comments that use racial slurs or perpetuate stereotypes.
These examples, like the one I experienced, may seem small but can have a significant impact on a person's well-being and sense of belonging in the workplace.
It's essential to recognize that these incidents are not isolated but part of a larger pattern of systemic racism and oppression. Racial microaggressions can create a hostile work environment, where people of color feel undervalued and marginalized. This can lead to increased stress and anxiety, lower job satisfaction, and even physical health problems.
As a society, we need to take action to address these issues and create more inclusive and equitable work environments. This includes fostering open conversations about race, educating ourselves and others about the impact of microaggressions and systemic racism, and taking concrete steps to address these issues, such as implementing diversity and inclusion training and creating policies to prevent discrimination.
"Microaggressions can be described as 'death by a thousand cuts.' Each individual incident may seem small, but the cumulative effect over time can be significant and damaging to a person's mental health and well-being." - Lynn Graham
In conclusion, racial microaggressions have a significant impact on people of color in the workplace. Racial microaggressions like the one I experienced are not isolated incidents but part of a larger pattern of discrimination and dehumanization. As Black women, we deserve to be treated with dignity and respect, not reduced to harmful stereotypes that perpetuate discrimination and dehumanization. By challenging and dismantling these harmful myths, we can create a more inclusive and equitable society that honors the fullness of Black women's experiences and emotions.
Sources:
Sue, D. W., Capodilupo, C. M., Torino, G. C., Bucceri, J. M., Holder, A. M. B., Nadal, K. L., & Esquilin, M. (2007). Racial microaggressions in everyday life: Implications for clinical practice. American Psychologist, 62(4), 271–286.
Livingston, R. W., Rosette, A. S., & Washington, E. F. (2012). Can an Agentic Black Woman Get Ahead? The Impact of Race and Interpersonal Dominance on Perceptions of Female Leaders. Psychological Science, 23(4), 354–358.
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